Economy Part 2

So of course after I write the last post and I am all upset I decide to actually be logical and go through our finances, look at the bills, do some math, 3 times ( I suck at math!). And things are not as bad as I feared! They aren't great but my visions of the poor house are way off! LOL
I guess I need to learn to have some faith and not get so worked up! We still need to be tight, to be safe but I don't need go into war mode! And also I need to look at everything more then once a week, at least for awhile!
What is it that freaks you out, but usually ends up ok?